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Veteran returns to Vietnam; returns photo of man he killed

Tearjerker.
miaouxsays...

Wtf. Surely you killed my father prepare to die would be more entertaining.

Dead is dead, just because the killer returns the photo of your father (who he killed, let's not forget that) doesn't make it better.

I'm not necessarily anti-war - or should we say, anti-politics/corporate-gain - but in this particular case, wouldn't re-opening a wound she'd presumably closed, and moved on from count as being excessively cruel? I'm not a psychiatrist either. Would this give her the same closure he's been seeking for, what, 33 years?

yourhydrasays...

^ they did a study on ww2 veterans that showed that most never shot to kill. they would either shoot blindly or at legs. it takes a sociopath to kill someone and not feel anything, even if it is war. He killed him, it's war, and I doubt he wanted to. It's what your survival instinct moves you to do, as does this sense of "pride" to defend your country. Very different then murder in my opinion.

xxovercastxxsays...

Reminds me of the anniversary of Pearl Harbor where they brought the surviving US and Japanese veterans together. I wish I could remember where I saw it... on the History Channel, I think.

When the two sides first come face to face, one of the Japanese pilots says to one of the American sailors (and unfortunately I have to paraphrase here), "I am sorry for bombing your ship."

The American replied, "You have nothing to be sorry for. We were soldiers and we were just doing our duty."

It was really amazing to watch them come together.

greatgooglymooglysays...

I suspect that with a different soundtrack the emotional impact would have been much less.

Also, the firing rate for American soldiers was much improved from WWII by Vietnam, the military was aware of the problem and soldiers were trained to overcome it. I think it was around 75-80%.

griefer_queafersays...

I was just thinking to myself before i watched this: "There is no way the american media will make this will be more interesting than it is manipulative." Well, i dont know much, but it aint all that hard to know the folks who frame (and profit from) these kinds of stories.

curiousitysays...

>> ^miaoux:
Wtf. Surely you killed my father prepare to die would be more entertaining.
Dead is dead, just because the killer returns the photo of your father (who he killed, let's not forget that) doesn't make it better.
I'm not necessarily anti-war - or should we say, anti-politics/corporate-gain - but in this particular case, wouldn't re-opening a wound she'd presumably closed, and moved on from count as being excessively cruel? I'm not a psychiatrist either. Would this give her the same closure he's been seeking for, what, 33 years?


Actually it does make it better. It just happens I've spoke with several councilors and psychologists about this issue. I'm the curious sort.

It is worse if the person has been killed and the daughter has the impression that the killer doesn't care... doesn't think of that person or action at all. In fact this is exactly what the daughter probably thought before being contacted. The man carried the photo around for decades. Obviously the event is something that he places importance on and was greatly affected. This adds great weight to the apology and lets the daughter know this was important to this man.

Closure... it's not just for movies.

Raaaghsays...

>> ^kymbos:
The capacity of the Vietnamese to forgive and move on is truly awe-inspiring.
Great sift.


Lets not go assuming the entire Vietnamese population has forgiven American and its soldiers for what they did.

Go to Hanoi and walk around the streets: keep an eye open and you'll see a few cold stares.

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