I added a second video (a little more dramatic) before and after: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n4Xt0tSAzc0

if anyone is interested

Well, I get that dating a trans person isn't for everyone - but for me that's more of an issue around reproduction issues (I want biological kids) than anything else. I could also see myself avoiding dating a non-passable person - but that seems more an issue around aesthetics than anything else.

Anyway, when it comes to dating trans people, saying you couldn't because of their past kind of suggests that regardless of what else you say, you don't really see trans people as their true gender (because you'd still see me as a man or 'too masculine') despite the fact that I don't really look, smell, or act like one (and in another year or so, you'd actually NEVER know unless I told you - which I would, eventually, but yeah).

So to answer your question - I understand that people wouldn't want to date a trans person but I don't always like the rationale that some people use.

>> ^Quboid:

>> ^nashvillain:
Gotta admit it's always a little crazy to see a discussion about my video (yeah, I'm the person in it) taking place on other websites ya'll be nice now!

Oh, this is awkward. Also, it's a virtually unique opportunity as I spoke unguarded earlier, without thinking that the subject would ever know.
How does comments like mine make you feel? Are they upsetting? Understandable? Both?
Oh and btw, you look like Sarah Chalke. I'm not trying to make any point here, just sayin'.

Gotta admit it's always a little crazy to see a discussion about my video (yeah, I'm the person in it) taking place on other websites ya'll be nice now!