Urban Dictionary: Red Hot Pooper
>> ^KnivesOut:

Join us later for Olivia Munn and the flaming shits.

don't forget!! http://videosift.com/video/Hot-Sauce-Shot-Challenge-Mega-Dare

In reply to this comment by MrFisk:
Remind me to downvote once this sifts.

This reminded me of the hot sauce mega dare from a few years ago.

http://videosift.com/video/Hot-Sauce-Shot-Challenge-Mega-Dare

^Sort of... but not really. Has marinated veggies and lots of them. Sesame oil and soy sauce and vinegar are the main seasoning components, as well as the hot sauce made with red pepper paste. The best part of this dish is that the rice gets crispy on the bottom from the heat.

My mom used to put soap in my mouth for saying dirty things ("Ralph went bliiiiiiind"). Needless to say (but I'll say it anyway) that happened a lot. One day I smartened up and acted excited to get the soap. That freaked her the fuck out so she used hot sauce. I love hot sauce to this day.

Wasabi is a part of Japanese food/culture. I'm pretty sure this kid will be eating it regularly by toddler age. For all we know, doing this diluted mixture of wasabi is a rite-of-passage for babies.

>> ^deathcow:

2 words... Naga Ghost


Oh man, I picked up a bottle of Naga hot sauce made from Bhut Jolokia at the weekend, rated at over 1,000,000 on the Scoville scale, but I haven't plucked up the courage to try it yet...
http://www.hot-headz.com/chilli-sauce/naga-chilli-sauce/hot-headz-bhut-jolokia-naga-chilli-sauce/

We'll try it with no oregano, and with some fresh cilantro and lemon juice squeezed in. I'll leave the hot sauce out so we can both season as we like.

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Tags for this video have been changed from 'beastie boys, dont play no game, mini movie, hot sauce committee' to 'beastie boys, dont play no game, mini movie, hot sauce committee, spie jonze' - edited by therealblankman

It could be worse, she could be putting hot sauce in his mouth and making him take cold showers. Don't worry, I'm sure this kid will grow up just fine without any sort of discipline whatsoever.

And to all those who said it was sick, that she was an unfit mother, or even went as far as to say what she did was abuse, about this video; would you say the same about this woman?

In an article from The New York Times, Dr. Shari Barkin, chief of the division of general pediatrics at the Monroe Carell Jr. Children’s Hospital at Vanderbilt University says:

Many parents’ discipline methods don’t work because children quickly learn that it’s much easier to capture a parent’s attention with bad behavior than with good. Parents unwittingly reinforce this by getting on the phone, sending e-mail messages or reading the paper as soon as a child starts playing quietly, and by stopping the activity and scolding a child when he starts to misbehave.

“How many times have you heard someone say, ‘I need to get off the phone because my child is acting up’?” asked Dr. Nathan J. Blum, a developmental-behavioral pediatrician at Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. “You’re doing exactly what the child wants.”

I argue that this kind of reinforcement only sets this child up for negative attention seeking behavior for the rest of his/her life. And in my opinion this is just as (if not more) abusive as putting hot sauce in someone's mouth or making them take a cold shower as a form of punishment. When that mom told her kid to do something he sure as shit did it, maybe it was done out of fear (and im still not advocating that, just trying to shoot down people who call it child abuse) but it's better that he's afraid of authority imho than unyielding.

This boy is the kind of person that's gonna grow up to be a career criminal, constantly disrespecting authority. The other boy will hate hot sauce, cold showers, and probably his mother. I'll pick the latter any day.

>> ^shogunkai:

One day that kid is going to snap, and then murder his mother with a cold shower and hot sauce.


More like a frozen lake and acid.

Anyway, point is, I agree with all those who said it's about the fear. Punishment can be given without causing your kid to be terrified of telling you the truth. Kids fuck up and they need to know they can trust their parents to at least understand they fucked up even if they get punished for it.

Teaching people not to do things because there's a reason it's morally wrong is better than teaching them not to do something because they fear punishment. The latter only serves to simultaneously teach that if you don't get caught, then there's nothing wrong with what you did. It teaches that there's a vast moral gray area, and plenty of room to manipulate people in order to avoid punishment.

People don't have any sort of natural, innate respect for an authority dishing out punishment. You have to believe in the reason the authority is dishing out the punishment for it to ultimately work. This is why people constantly disagree with "ultimate" authorities like God and Government...because they see the fallacies in the reasoning behind the punishments dished out by these authorities.

One day that kid is going to snap, and then murder his mother with a cold shower and hot sauce.

From Dr Phil's Website:

Dr. Phil plays a video of Jessica standing in her bathroom yelling at her 7-year-old son, Kristoff. Dr. Phil interrupts the tape before its completion and turns to the mom of six.

“So that makes sense to you?” he asks, indicating her discipline techniques.

“I don’t know what to do with this child,” she replies.

“I’m just going to tell you up front, there is no theory under which that is going to work. There is no theory under which that makes sense,” Dr. Phil says. “You had to know that was going to be my attitude about this.”

“Of course,” she says.

When the videotape ends, mouths hang open, and many audience members wipe away tears.

“I need to say this and be very clear. We didn’t shoot that tape. Your daughter shot that tape,” Dr. Phil reminds Jessica. “Because if I had a camera crew in your home shooting that, and they didn’t intervene and stop it, there would be something seriously wrong with my camera crew. I think anybody would look at that and say that that is absolutely outrageous, it is over the top, it is abusive, it is inefficient, it is out of control. I’m sorry. I just have to tell you the truth.”

“You’re completely entitled to your opinions,” Jessica says. “That’s why I’m here.”

“I’m glad you are here, because I’m telling you, that has to stop,” Dr. Phil warns Jessica. “If you say you’ve been through everything — you’ve tried time-outs, you’ve done this, you’ve done that — if you’re down to that, then you need to give the child up, because you are out of control. Somebody in the audience yelled out, ‘That is evil.’ I don’t believe that. I don’t believe you’re an evil person. I think you are misguided. I think you think you’re doing the only thing you know how to do, but that is totally unacceptable.”

“Then tell me what I need to do with him,” Jessica says in frustration.

Dr. Phil explains what Jessica means in the videotape when she says Kristoff “pulled three cards" at school. Green means good job, yellow is a warning, blue is a time-out, orange means removal from class and red means a trip to the principal’s office. “He had three cards that day. What were they for?” Dr. Phil asks.

“He was throwing pencils, he was sword fighting with another child, and he was acting out in another class,” Jessica replies.

“Your theory is, based on that, he then lied about it? He didn’t tell you he got the three?”

“Correct.”

“Let me tell you, I would lie 100 out of 100 times. You are teaching him to lie,” Dr. Phil points out. “Based on results, what you’re doing isn’t working.”

“So tell me what will,” Jessica says. “I will be happy to abandon all of that.”

“I believe you are desperate for answers,” Dr. Phil notes.

In an interview, Jessica’s husband, Gary, explains how he feels about his wife’s methods for disciplining Kristoff. “Jessica is more frustrated than angry, because we’ve added more kids to the house. When Jessica gets frustrated, I see her having a shorter temper. Kristoff has not reacted to much of our discipline,” he says. “The idea for hot sauce came up from my wife talking to a friend of hers. In the military, we use cold showers for discipline, basically to get people’s attention. When Kristoff gets a cold shower, he pays attention at the moment. I feel like I’m strict with my kids.”

When the videotape ends, Dr. Phil turns to Jessica. “You believe that, in fact, he has reactive attachment disorder,” he says, referring to her adopted son.

“Correct,” she answers.

“Is that your diagnosis, or has he been seen by a professional who has rendered that diagnosis?”

“He was seen by a professional for a while, but I don’t know if that professional diagnosed him as reactive attachment disorder,” Jessica replies.

“He is a twin, and his brother is not like this at all,” Dr. Phil points out.

http://www.drphil.com/slideshows/slideshow/6062/?id=6062&showID=1545

Also:
Reactive attachment disorder
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reactive_attachment_disorder

>> ^cito:

yea this is tame compared to most I see in rl here.
I've seen kids acting out in grocery store get snatched up and spanked with their mother's shoe in middle of aisle, and everyone else sighs a THANK YOU for it after the hellion finally calms down.
corporal punishment is a good thing, and I support it 100%, now constantly yelling and time outs and screaming doesn't work and never will. That's why a good paddling or belt to the bum will solve an unruly child.


This is not just corporal punishment. Hot sauce in the mouth for over a minute (you can see the volume of liquid when the child spits) and then doused in a who knows how cold shower... I can imagine that breathing through your nose with that in your mouth would be agony (depending on how hot the sauce is) and if you should accidentally inhale some?

And as others have said, just because there is worse out there doesn't make this justified or acceptable.

@JiggaJonson

I was horribly abused as a kid. Typical discipline in my house was extremely violent from my mother. I had stitches a few times from dinner plates to the face for hiding my vegetables in a napkin to throw them away without eating them to having a broomstick broken over my head for being 10 minutes late. Basically, whatever my mom had in her hand at the time was what was used upside my head. If she had done half the shit to me now that she did back then, she'd have been thrown in jail and I would have been assigned a new mother.

This woman is just as fucked up and out of line as my own mother was. Just because I ate a bar of soap and this kid has to drink hot sauce doesn't make it less abusive. There are a thousand better ways to discipline kids than abusing them and mentally destroying them like this crazy bitch.

Do you know why that little boy lied to her? He was scared shitless of the woman. He would have gotten the same or worse treatment from her if he had told her in the first place. He was hedging his bets in the hopes of not getting caught. He is terrified of her.

Kids lie about shit. All of them do. You just have to be smarter than a five year old and pay attention to your kids and you'll see right through their crap. It isn't difficult.

You also mentioned that this isn't clearly spelled out as abuse in the child welfare guidelines, but this was 2 minutes of this kid's life. Imagine what the other 23 hours and 58 minutes are like. Imagine how much worse it is going to get down the road for this kid.

I am guessing you don't have kids, and if you do, I hope that you don't think anything even remotely close to what this woman is saying and doing are anywhere even close to normal. Defending her and dismissing it as "I got worse" or "it isn't all that bad" is, frankly, sickening.

As a father of three with a forth on the way, I can honestly say that if I ever did anything like this to my kids, I could never live with myself. This woman almost seemed to enjoy it and relish in the power.

I am an atheist, average person. Maybe I can see things more clearly without the need to save them from the devil or whatever shit is driving this woman.