Privilege -aka- Why I've Never Been Afraid of Being Raped (Femme Talk)

Great! Now that you've clicked the baited title.. let's get to the controversial stuff!

Firstly, This is going to be an on-going series of essays about my frustration with American Social Issues.. all of them really

Secondly, Frustration over the constant "mild" racism on this (& every other website) that re-enforces "ACTUAL" racism is what prompted this endless shitstorm of "why the FUCK would you think THAT is a 'perfectly reasonable' or valid thing to say/support"

Forgive me in advance, my shit has already been thoroughly lost over this.
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W.I.N.B.A.B.R Entry #1
- Framing - Male Privilege -

This is my attempt to establish common ground with anyone who wants to SINCERELY AND RESPECTFULLY discuss/debate these topics.

A simple understanding of how I underpin my rants here on Videosift/the Interwebs.

For me personally:

Facts are the Foundation.
Experience is the Framing.
Rants, Diatribes, & Two Cent are the colorful - sometimes distasteful - Exterior

That being said..

I'm AWARE OF and APPRECIATE my Male Privilege.

Foundation – 1 in 10 rape victims are men. (Rathus, Nevid and Fichner-Rathus, 568)

Framing -- I personally have never felt vulnerable or unsafe while walking alone to my car, or drinking with a group of rowdy frat guys.

Exterior -- Because of that, I would never tell a woman.. "Hilliary Clinton is President now. So.. can we stop pretending like sexual assault is still a 'REAL' problem affecting all women in america today."

Or "I know a women who was rape once and SHE's successful. See, no excuses. Why don't you stop whining about sexism & rape culture already?"

Or "I'm not a fan of the 'Political-Correct Police' and how they try to make everything about Rape Culture.
We're ALL potential Rapists and we ALL have an EQUAL CHANCE of being raped.
We should focus on THAT more than anything, not imagined 'Systemic Sexism & Corruption'"

Or "I don't blame all my problems on women. So i can't be sexist."
Or "My Son-in-Law got raped once. So how could I be a rapist?!"




I've never say any crazy heinous shit like this to a woman because.. my PRIVILEGE as a male is NOT taken for granted.

I'm societally-aware enough to know.. I shouldn't mock or belittle other humans' suffering.

Especially suffering that I will most likely NEVER experience at all.
Something that I will NEVER be able to fully empathize with. Ever.. at all.

And therefore, I should remain silent on this topic for the most part. Choosing my words carefully whenever I'm sincerely attempting to add to a discussion.

I never gloat and constantly lord my male privilege over women whenever a video about "female culture" gets sifted..

.. like I'm some ignorant asshole who doesn't understand women are treated differently.

"I pee outside standing up ALL the time. Why don't women just do that? It always works for me."

I am a person who understands and doesn't actively overlook that:

1.) Women are treated differently simply because they're women.
2.) That treatment is often ignored, and a double-standard is created because of that.
3.) That treatment & double-standard ARE the sexism & misogyny women constantly, frustratedly call attention to.


This.. ladies and jellyspoons.. is my analogy for white privilege - aka - "mild" racism.
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Great, now i've said all that. Hopefully shit will start clicking in your WASPy "mildly racist" heads.

*Ahem*

Whenever YOU as a WHITE male, tell ME as a NON-WHITE male..
"This is no such think as White Privilege"


It's the EXACT SAME as saying..
"This is no such think as Male Privilege, now whip out your dick and start peeing on this tree like equals"

..to any woman.

"But.. Genji.." I hear you say " Everyone knows WOMEN DON'T HAVE PENISES! You're metaphors don't make any sense!"

EXACTLY WHITE MALES. EXACTLY!!

Women Blacks fundamentally lack a feature & the perks that go with it.

A feature that almost all malesWhites take for granted.

Get it now? Understand a little better? Don't give a fuck still?

Good, I'm done for now.

~Fin!~



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Okay, to finish this ridiculous framing that - hopefully - at least females can relate too..


Even if a woman worked thru all that daily corruption & oppression.
Acquired a dick, along with the position of Cock-mander in Chief!

..the highest, most honorable title to bestow on a person in this country..

Asshats like @lantern53 & @bobknight33 would STILL mock, disparage & talk shit about them.

" ..This President is un-american.. She went to FOREIGN SCHOOLS where they taught her about FEMALE VALUES! .. her mother is even a well-known Vaginist!

Her church of 20 years preaches FEMALE EMPOWERMENT..
She can't be trusted and she only got elected because of the Vagina Vote!

Also, I'm not a sexist or rapist either.
I just want to help those silly dickless women fix the 'problem' in the Woman Community & Culture"

Make sure you let the absurdity of that comparison sink in.
Because that's PRECISELY how ridiculous and childish racists & their apologists sound.

Here. On Reddit. Everywhere.

*Deep Breath*

Uuugh.. =/

Cord Cutters Unite!

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A total of 11 votes have been cast on this poll.


I don't know about you guys, but I'm finding it easier than ever to go without a TV (no I won't beat you over the head about how awesome I am for throwing out my set). I use Netflix, Amazon Instant Video, PBS Streaming and others.

It would be nice to have a way to integrate these sites into VideoSift. I've found some of my favourite shows through the Sift, like Would I Lie to You, Downton Abbey and That Mitchell & Webb Look. I think VideoSift, as a community of smarties, does a lot better job as a discovery service than even the much-ballyhooed Netflix recommendations engine

Of course there are downsides to attempting to integrate sites like Netflix et al:
-- They generally don't allow embedding!
-- Geoblocking
-- Some cost money

The first one listed above is the biggie - but what I was imagining is a URL to the show or episode, with a screenshot , and then clicking would open it in a new window - but people could leave comments and vote etc on VideoSift. My fantasy would be having viewing parties where we could all get together and group binge on new shows ... but I'd settle for a good source of recommendations for what to watch.

Geoblocking is becoming less of a problem for us people living outside North America; this is because of easy (legal) circumvention, and sites like Netflix and Crackle that have made local versions available.

Let me know what you think about the idea - and happy to hear tweaks or other suggestions in the comments.

Completely Erase Entire Comments from People You're Ignoring

I've just made a tweak to the system to allow for individual users that I define to completely erase comments in their entirety written by people you are ignoring.

If you are a person who can't stand that the existing "ignore" feature still allows you the opportunity to see comments from people you can't stand and want this feature enabled for you, just let me know (either here or in a PM if you'd prefer) and I'll enable it for you.

Caveat emptor: Once comments are completely hidden from a user you're ignoring you'll have no way to un-ignore them (except to ask me to turn this feature off for you of course).

Happy Friday!

Do you enjoy marijuana?

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A total of 14 votes have been cast on this poll.


are you a pothead?

"Community" is Back and on Yahoo!

I don't know if all fans of Community are aware of this because I never heard a word about it, but after their final season on TV last year, I guess Yahoo! picked them up for a 13-episode season, which started airing online last month.

This was quite exciting for me to learn. I'm really enjoying their new season and I want to try getting the word out to everyone else who hasn't heard.

Tell a friend.

https://screen.yahoo.com/community/

Should ignored comments be completely hidden?

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Sometimes one can't help but click 'show it anyway' when an ignored sifter comments. Often, it would be better if those one ignores could be out of mind completely. This would be helped by an option to not see that they had commented at all, as in the comment would be completely hidden, unseen when you read comment threads. Opinions are welcome. I can't be sure all the options are possible, but we'll get an idea what's wanted.

I started a YouTube gaming news channel - Factual Gamer (Videogames Talk)

So I decided to create a new YouTube channel called Factual Gamer, because I felt that the internet is already full of opinions, biased-reviewing, and rage-filled commenting.

Factual Gamer is an informational, fact-based news show, about the gaming world, and everything related, and aims to make a difference by presenting gamers with objective, factual information.

This is my latest video (I currently post a new one every friday) with this weeks news:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n2_d8kM81Js&list=UUkwkxH8Xue-ae2z98JS_AEA

Let me know what you think (I appreciate any constructive criticism) and if you enjoy, please share and subscribe

Is the Sift outdated?

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A total of 12 votes have been cast on this poll.


Videosift is still chugging along after 9 years. No small task.

Tho without new & regulars users, is it doomed to a slow agonizing death?

Will the site ever be a contender for any significant portion of the market share?

When the heck will Dag give us the option to change our frecken' usernames?!

Seriously tho, I'd pay a small subscription fee for that functionality. Okay, now i'm just rambling.

RFC: VS6 Sidebar Suggestions

Request for comment on the new VS6 sidebar on the video permalink page. It currently shows to sections with a maximum of 5 videos per section: 1) Suggested Videos; 2) Related Videos. It's been suggested (or complained about) that the new sidebar sucks.

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View Counting Bug in Sift Talk

When I'm in a permalink page for a Sift Talk and I either reload the page or click the title (self-link to the same page), the views count goes up sometimes in ones, as it perhaps should, but sometimes in twos and threes. I didn't figure out a pattern. I did notice that the one Vote message I looked at always went up by ones and the others went up by twos or threes.

@lucky760

Edit: and sometimes fours.

VideoSift v6 (VS6) Beta Video Page

As our more veteran members have pointed out from time to time, it's been quite some time since we made any big changes around here. And as @dag announced last week VideoSift is 9 years old!

As the years have flown by and the Internet culture has continued to evolve, we, like ever before, want to keep nimble to continue making improvements so The Sift is still a place you will love to call home. ... more inside ...

Happy 9th Siftiversary

Well, here we are again, 9 years down the track. Maybe we're not quite the big deal we were in previous years, but ... we're still here! The reason we're still here is because VideoSift is run a by a bunch of maniacal, (maybe slightly OCD?) but wonderful people who make this place a living breathing community.

I know my touch has been a bit light over the last couple of years, but I do come by every day to check-in. VideoSift is a touchstone for me– it's the site that I measure all other websites by. Thanks to all the Sifters who make this what is still the best community on the web and my Internet home.

Should videosift allow images in comments?

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A total of 32 votes have been cast on this poll.


Per @lucky760's comment,
It was decided years ago those are far too easily abused, but hey this is a meritocracy. If the constituency stands united with a single voice, perhaps the site admins would reconsider the issue. Maybe start a poll.


I'd sometimes like to embed images in comments, and I think that the existing hobbling/banning options would be sufficient to deal with abuse... but then, I'm not entirely sure what type of abuse @lucky760's worried about? I would think that it would be similar to embedding any video source (requires gold star).


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