Best way to get over a crush is to ask them out.

Two possible negative outcomes:

1- they say no, but are polite, means your out of your league.

2-they say no, but are rude, means you haven't wasted time being attracted to a piece of shit.

Single good outcome? They say yes.

So look at the odds of "cowboying up"

1 Good
2 Good, cuz they're bad
3 Bad, but you ACTUALLY TRIED. Nothing is worse than not knowing.

Fuck this guy.

@Payback

You find you can get over people just by recognising that they're out of your league? That's about the point I start stealing hair off their brushes to decorate the shrine I'm building.

Uh... that's not a crush, that's infatuation.


...but seriously, what you do with the information is up to you. Just because they're out of your league, doesn't mean you stop. It's just more work.

You got your order of ops wrong is all. Lead with the stolen hair shrine construction and then if the crush has lasted to the point of its completion offer it to your living idol as evidence of your unwavering affection and superior architectural artistry.

Killer pickup technique. Literally only ever failed me a few times.

ps. 28/m/LDN ISO women (22-32) 4 long term obsession. Msg me w/ pic

Why is everyone talking about "out of your league?" There is no such thing as leagues. It is all about how you present yourself and how good of a job you do in making her feel good and secure.

The ugliest dude in the world can get the most attractive woman in the world if he emanates confidence and capability. Leagues are a myth--an excuse insecure men use to explain their inability to achieve things that they want in life.