Do You Know Who You're Talking To?
Rhetorical question: of course you don't--this is the internet. Regardless of who you are talking to; Do you know who is reading what you write? Again--no you don't.
I've run into many people online who use an imagery similar to, "Well, I'm just going to cut my throat because of this." Or, "I'm going to jump off a bridge now."
Please, Do Not Do This Online.
You don't know who might read this type of thing. How would you feel if a person who read what you wrote had been saving pills--and had just saved enough to kill themselves? Or, has been scoping out the neighborhood bridge to see just how high it is? You don't know if that person--Any person who sees your comment--is on the very edge of doing something irrevocable. And your comment could easily be the final push over that edge.
There are many people online who have a serious disease of the depressive spectrum. These people are usually bright and talkative, and can be very entertaining. They can also be suicidal in such a way that no one will be able to tell that is how they feel--until it's too late. People who don't have one of these diseases can't understand Suicidal Ideation. It's not just thinking about suicide--the full-blown idea and compulsion can come over them in an instant.
Are you going to say, "Well, I didn't KNOW they were sick", or "It was Just a JOKE." That hardly seems like it will be of comfort to their families (I know it wasn't to mine).
I'm not the speech police; say what you will. But, after reading this I hope you will--at least--think twice before using imagery online which might cause never ending heartache and pain to the family of a person who just happened to read one of your very clever jokes online.
I've run into many people online who use an imagery similar to, "Well, I'm just going to cut my throat because of this." Or, "I'm going to jump off a bridge now."
Please, Do Not Do This Online.
You don't know who might read this type of thing. How would you feel if a person who read what you wrote had been saving pills--and had just saved enough to kill themselves? Or, has been scoping out the neighborhood bridge to see just how high it is? You don't know if that person--Any person who sees your comment--is on the very edge of doing something irrevocable. And your comment could easily be the final push over that edge.
There are many people online who have a serious disease of the depressive spectrum. These people are usually bright and talkative, and can be very entertaining. They can also be suicidal in such a way that no one will be able to tell that is how they feel--until it's too late. People who don't have one of these diseases can't understand Suicidal Ideation. It's not just thinking about suicide--the full-blown idea and compulsion can come over them in an instant.
Are you going to say, "Well, I didn't KNOW they were sick", or "It was Just a JOKE." That hardly seems like it will be of comfort to their families (I know it wasn't to mine).
I'm not the speech police; say what you will. But, after reading this I hope you will--at least--think twice before using imagery online which might cause never ending heartache and pain to the family of a person who just happened to read one of your very clever jokes online.
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