Dan Savage: If you fear his reaction, its a bad relationship

"My bf wants to try anal sex and I don't. Should I do it?" - Dan Savage at the University of Delaware -yt
jimnmssays...

I never understood why a man would want to have anal sex with a woman. We (men) sometimes use the phrase "tap that ass" or "get a piece of that ass" when we're with other guys and see a hot chick, but (at least I don't) don't mean it literally.

Shepppardsays...

>> ^jimnms:

I never understood why a man would want to have anal sex with a woman. We (men) sometimes use the phrase "tap that ass" or "get a piece of that ass" when we're with other guys and see a hot chick, but (at least I don't) don't mean it literally.


For you.

spoco2says...

>> ^jimnms:

I never understood why a man would want to have anal sex with a woman. We (men) sometimes use the phrase "tap that ass" or "get a piece of that ass" when we're with other guys and see a hot chick, but (at least I don't) don't mean it literally.


Well, that's good for you I guess, but for a lot of us it's got a certain taboo quality to it which makes it very hot. For me it's about the woman being so turned on she wants to do it, to totally give in to something like that. That's what's hot about it to me.

As for the actual feeling of it. For me, not really a great deal different to vaginal sex, so that's not the attraction. There are guys who say that it's awesome because of how tight it is in comparison, but eh, no big difference in that regards to me.

I'd never want to force a woman into it at all, because that would entirely remove the turn on. The turn on is that they are so aroused, they want to do something 'dirty', that it's a different feeling. So if they're only doing it because you are badgering them into it, the enjoyment is gone.

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