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Chick Thinks It's A Pillow

deedub81 says...

Stuffed or no - My cat would have killed that thing - Just for fun! I'm kidding!!

But seriously, my cat would have eaten that bird.

HenningKO said:

How do cats get to this place where they agree not to kill something cute and easy? Aren't they killing little birds all the time outside? Is it a matter of training or is the cat just so stuffed on meow mix that it can't be bothered to get up?

Police Harass Homeowner Over Washing Car in Driveway

Dubai دبيّ‎

deedub81 says...

Start the video at 1:15 elapsed and it works better with the music.

*quality

eric3579 said:

I think music choice (although i like it the music) was a serious fail for this video. Quite tame video footage for such "epic" music. Music completely over sells the video footage. Just made the video hard to enjoy.

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Dirty Jobs' Mike Rowe on the High Cost of College

Dirty Jobs' Mike Rowe on the High Cost of College

The Power of Empathy - Empathy Vs. Sympathy

deedub81 says...

I can't imagine what it's like to be a quadriplegic, but you can always listen empathetically and TRY to understand.

Magicpants said:

While I generally agree with what she is saying, trying to empathize with someone with whom you can't, can make you seem phony.
I've had the opportunity to spend some time with people stricken with quadriplegia over the last few years, and most people can not even begin to understand what it's like to deal with that.

The Power of Empathy - Empathy Vs. Sympathy

The Most Famous Nobody You've Never Heard of

deedub81 says...

I was going to say the same thing.

sanderbos said:

Very nice video of a nice story.

I want to object to the terms 'due diligence' and 'loophole' in the summary.
From the stories he tells and the quotes mentioned he does not tell lies or fake his intentions in dealing with the press, he just goes to where the news is with the specific intention of being a part of it.

Wikileaks has released another bombshell

Van Jones: Let's Stop Trying to Please Republicans

deedub81 says...

Van Jones is kinda kooky in my opinion. I digress.

To imply that Obamacare is a Republican plan is ludicrous. Why can politicians not take responsibility for their own legislation? Republicans and Democrats are all the same. I see little difference between the two parties. They are all reactive, knee-jerk legislators that believe there needs to be a law for every situation known to mankind.

Leave the American People alone. Me and my neighbors can take care of ourselves.

Van Jones should read Dr. Covey's book:

“Proactive is a word you won’t find in most dictionaries. It means more than merely taking initiative. It means that as human beings, we are responsible for our own lives. Our behavior is a function of our decisions, not our conditions. We can subordinate feelings to values. We have the initiative and the responsibility to make things happen.

Look at the word responsibility- “response-ability”- the ability to respond. Highly proactive people recognize that responsibility. They do not blame circumstances, conditions or conditioning for their behavior. Their behavior is a product of their own conscious choice, based on values, rather than a product of their conditions, based on feeling.

Because we are, by nature, proactive, if our lives are a function of conditioning and conditions, it is because we have, by conscious decision or by default, chosen to empower those things to control us.

In making such a choice, we become reactive. Reactive people are often affected by their physical environment. If the weather is good, they feel good. If it isn’t, it affects their attitude and their performance. Proactive people can carry their own weather with them. Whether it rains or shines makes no difference to them. They are value driven; and if their value is to produce good quality work, it isn’t a function of whether the weather is conducive to it or not.

Reactive people are also affected by the social environment, by the “social weather.” When people treat them well, they feel well, when people don’t, they become defensive or protective. Reactive people build their emotional lives around the behavior of others, empowering the weaknesses of other people to control them.

The ability to subordinate an impulse to a value is the essence of the proactive person. Reactive people are driven by feelings, by circumstances, by conditions, by their environment. Proactive people are driven by values-carefully thought about, selected and internalized values.

Proactive people are still influenced by external stimuli, whether physical, social, or psychological. But their response to the stimuli, conscious or unconscious, is a value-based choice or response.

As Eleanor Roosevelt observed, “No one can hurt you without your consent.” In the word of Gandhi , “They cannot take away our self respect if we do not give it to them” It is our willing permission, our consent to what happens to us, that hurts us far more than what happens to us in the first place.

I admit this is very hard to accept emotionally, especially if we have had years and years of explaining our misery in the name of circumstance or someone else’s behavior. But until a person can say deeply and honestly, “I am what I am today because of the choices I made yesterday,” that person cannot say, “I choose otherwise.”

-Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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GOP's Little Rule Change They Hoped You Wouldn't Notice

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