Ima spam your profile with my lovins.

>> ^Zonbie:
Aww - we be together soon honey love you too
My girlfriend is charter again yey - thank you for promote sweetie


UPVOTE to promote lovey dovey on the net.

I asked Justin to tell him to back off, I didn't mean for him to go off the handle like he did. He was upset from multiple ( serious ) things beforehand, so it was just really bad timing. He's rarely like that, and when he is it's in my defense. And now a some of VS is not going to want to do anything with us, 'cause they don't want to try to understand both sides, just one. :]

Yesterday was just a really shitty day, didn't go well at all. But apologies have been made and they're meant, so hopefully all the angered people will be able to cool down a bit.. Hopefully sooner than later.

In reply to this comment by xxovercastxx:
I want to say up front that I'm not trying to drag this out and I honestly mean what I'm about to say as constructive advice, not criticism or argument.

I understand what you're saying about being afraid that your comment might not be taken seriously, but you have some obligation to state your opinion to a would-be harasser anyway. The key to sexual harassment is that the advances are unwanted. You have to make that clear to the other person and give them the opportunity to correct their behavior. It wouldn't be fair for them to face disciplinary measures without ever knowing they were doing something wrong.

Both of us have apologized. I don't feel there's anything more to say than what has been said, except for anything moodonia has to add.

>> ^SDGundamX:
...like your over-protective boyfriend for instance. You both owe Moodonia an apology, in my opinion. Not that that'll happen. This is the Internet after all...

I dunno about women in general but I don't go for just looks, I need personality and feeling. The type of dude to do porn isn't my type.

>> ^Octopussy:
Talking about porn myths (http://femme.videosift.com/talk/Just-for-fun-Pornography-Myths#co
mment-484711), maybe you just touched on some serious truthiness re women and sex and/or porn: humour. Could it be that some/a lot/all women are put off by/not interested in porn because it is all presented in such a terrible serious way?

>> ^thinker247:
I love how Ant downvoted, yet bookmarked this post.
And I'm only upvoting because of the perfectly-placed weenie covers.


Of course.. Don't want blankfist getting jealous!

It made me uncomfortable because I felt it was sexual, but I was trying to keep my cool about it. Please.. just let this go. He responded, he's apologized, and it's all cool now. Misunderstandings have been cleared up. He already agreed that using the words sexual harassment was a bit far, he said them while he was upset. Like he said in his latest reply, it was unwanted sexual attention.

His problem is that the comment made me uncomfortable and I asked him to help me deal with it, because if you hadn't been joking you probably wouldn't've listened to me. It was a stupid thing to do but it definitely is understandable. I'm sorry that the effect I had has angered you, and that the acts of assholes in the past made me unsure of your intentions.


>> ^moodonia:
"I'm Obsidianfire-sexual, no interest in anyone else."
pwnt
Nothing about being upset there. Saw it upset who? You are the only one claiming to be upset about sexual harassment. ON A FUCKING PORN MAG THREAD. Damn right I'm calling a discuss. You dont accuse people of sexual misdeeds and fuck off back up your moral high ground. I made a non sexual joke in response to what was said in a previous comment. I didnt even bring up the subject. Look it up. You consider "we should talk" sexual? Notice the wink at the end? As in joke?
Your basic problem is you think I'm hitting on your girlfriend. You have a problem. Get over it. I couldnt care less about whats going on in your life that makes you act the way you do, everyone has problems, not everyone makes threats and accusations in a forum for public disscussion. You accuse me of sexual harassment, now you accuse other people of trolling and spam.....
Sexual harassment? Is this your first day on the internet or something?

'Cause Scotty doesn't knoooowww!!

Since this is all up in the face, I'll post what I said to LittleRed here:

"Harassment means any comment or behaviour that is unwelcome, offensive, demeaning, humiliating, derogatory, or is otherwise inappropriate or fails to respect the dignity of an individual."

I've had a LOT of trouble with men before: emotionally, physically, and sexually. Even if it's just a joke, guys flirting with me reminds me of the bad experiences I've had. Justin knows that, so he's protective of me in that sense. I asked him to respond, because I didn't know whether or not I would be taken seriously for my comment, 'cause I'm a chick and asshole guys I've been around haven't taken me seriously because of that.

Experience leads to reactions, and I've had guys say that kinda shit to me and mean it. I'm pretty cautious, it's just the way my life has made me. Lay offa Justin, he's just trying to protect me in the way most guys I know do - by defending at all costs, reputation included. ( Also, before you go saying - this is the internet! - I've had problems online too. )

Just.. calm down for a bit. I'm sorry if anything here personally offended you. People get upset and say shit without thinking of exactly how it'll be understood; it's a natural, human mistake. Most problems in the world arise because of misunderstandings. It has nothing to do with maturity. Mistakes and rash emotions happen at all ages, whether the person is mature or immature.

Welcome to the sift!

Uh.. if you uhm, stalk my unsifted videos list whenever I post anything, you can totally take any banned members discarded videos! >.>

Nah jk lol. Welcome to videosift, hope you're prepared to get addicted.

Basically, you can't post a video you made/were in, and you can't post a video if you uploaded it to another site. No videos with people dying for entertainment ( news and shizz is okay, I'd think ), no porn, no full episodes of TV shows, no promotion of racism, and make sure to check whether or not a video is sifted.

It sounds complicated, but it'll be secondary instinct soon enough. Gluck!

Oh dear. D: I won't ask then. o.o

Thanks!

>> ^blankfist:
Yay! Congrats, karkarlee! Let's sticky this puppy to the top, shall we? For your silver you get half a cup of A$$ GR@V33 to smear wherever and on whomever you wish. At your gold star milestone, you get a full cup. You don't even want to know how much of that you get when you break 1000!!!!

The guy in the beginning was awkward and nearly made me stop watching, but I'm glad I continued. Very informative, and definitely fed my nerd urge. Thanks for the sift, sorry it hasn't published.

"Harassment means any comment or behaviour that is unwelcome, offensive, demeaning, humiliating, derogatory, or is otherwise inappropriate or fails to respect the dignity of an individual."

I've had a LOT of trouble with men before: emotionally, physically, and sexually. Even if it's just a joke, guys flirting with me reminds me of the bad experiences I've had. Justin knows that, so he's protective of me in that sense. I asked him to respond, because I didn't know whether or not I would be taken seriously for my comment, 'cause I'm a chick and asshole guys I've been around haven't taken me seriously because of that.

Experience leads to reactions, and I've had guys say that kinda shit to me and mean it. I'm pretty cautious, it's just the way my life has made me. Lay offa Justin, he's just trying to protect me in the way most guys I know do - by defending at all costs, reputation included. ( Also, before you go saying - this is the internet! - I've had problems online too. )

Just.. calm down for a bit. I'm sorry if anything here personally offended you. People get upset and say shit without thinking of exactly how it'll be understood; it's a natural, human mistake. Most problems in the world arise because of misunderstandings. It has nothing to do with maturity. Mistakes and rash emotions happen at all ages, whether the person is mature or immature.

In reply to this comment by LittleRed:
No, it's not sexual harassment. "What do you think about pale and scrawny?" doesn't constitute a "hostile environment" which, unless there is suggestion of sexual favors, is what is required to prove sexual harassment. If she was offended by it, that's her own problem. She's a big girl - she can fight her own battles, or attack men for their harmless, entertaining comments if she chooses. She shouldn't have to send her boyfriend on another continent over to say rude things. That's something that should be addressed in private profile comments, and probably from her to him. Jeez. Grow up, you two.

And spamming your profile? OH NOES. One message from a user that might not agree with what you have to say is now spam? Last I checked, this website is based just as much on discussion and sharing opinions as it is on vote whoring and submitting videos. I will share my opinion with whomever I choose. If you don't like it, don't pay attention.

Thank you everyone.

@ kronosposeidon: BRUCE LEE MOTHAFUCKA

@ my15minutes: Thank you for noticing. ( yay I'm not the only one to shorten karkarlee to kkl )

@ laura: You're definitely one of my favorite yourself! Chick sifters unite.

@ Ryjkyj: FEEEENLAND! This is an example of some Finnish Conan lovers, and their skillz: http://www.videosift.com/video/Trampoline-accident ( Their talent in language is especially profound and at the level of a brain kid with an IQ of 180. One boy shows this by screaming: "HOLY SHIT! GOD DAMNIT!" )

Lots of caps in this one.