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Who would have thunk it?

Females become aware of their sexuality and the various powers it entails at a very young age.

As they mature, they become aware of the pitfalls.

I think if women were free enough to enjoy their own sexuality as much as men generally do, there would be manipulation on BOTH sides which would just be fun! lol

^ In Frank Herberts Heretics of Dune (book 5), he explores this idea in an interesting way. The idea is that the "Honoured Matres" (adepts of a female cult) are trained to have such minutely precise vaginal muscle control, that they can induce a sexual experience in men that is so overwhelmingly powerful that they become "imprinted". As such, they are completely at the mercy of the adept who has imprinted them as the experience is like an incredibly addictive drug. A factor which is very important, is that it takes the adepts voluntary and conscious control to convey the sexual experience, and thus the experience cannot be obtained by force. Thus, the adepts can "enslave" a man to desires he cannot control, and which can only be met by her choice, allowing her to manipulate him completely for the rest of his life.

The main male character, has been secretly equipped to provide a woman with an equally intense experience, and so "imprint" her. When an adept is sent to imprint him, so that he can be bent to the cults cause, he in turn imprints her and they achieve balance. Both need what only the other can provide. The power balance is equal, and the utter manipulation of one over the other is countered. Its been around 15 years since i read it, but im pretty sure the adept is forced by this imprinting to break from her cult and so he is protected from their machinations.

Oh, and I think they are both meant to have had the most incredible sex ever imaginable too. bonus.

Men use sex as a means of manipulation or getting needs met too, to counterbalance.
Thanks Thylan for the Dune association!

Isn't this clip a +commercial?
Quite short treatment of the subject.

Oh, men totally use sex to manipulate. I been manipulated up one side and down the other, and even enjoyed it.

Ask Alexis K Tyler...

I dont use sex as a weapon or to manipulate and i can say that with complete honesty. If I was with a girl who wanted to use it for means other than physical/emotional satisfaction and/or growth in the relationship or bonding then I wouldnt be with that girl anymore. I know people use it as a tool but i refuse to do so because it can be such a great experience that I dont ever want to taint it with such things