Well the interesting thing about language is that it's the usage that defines it ultimately, not the books. From what I've noticed 's is used for words that aren't traditional and look awkward in the user's eyes without the '. Such as CD's or 'the 50's' or something similar. Then that's led to people copying from others and then implementing it in their entire use of the written language. Basically, choice and ignorance and dismissal of proper grammar.

It's annoying yeah, but the cause and effect is pretty cool. I hope it doesn't stick though.. The apostrophe key on this keyboard is gonna wear out soon. D: ( + my eye's dont lke it 2 much . )

Westy, do you spell that way on purpose? It comes off as an affectation bro, and it creeps me out. Reminds me of those times when I was depressed and would avoid proper grammar and spelling, and avoid too much use of "I" and "Me" while typing e-mails so as not to come off too "full of myself."

If you really do type that way unintentionally, you must either be missing fingers, suffering from a degenerated nervous system, or on waay too much caffeine. In any case, it's obnoxious. Perhaps try typing your comments into Word and using the spell check before posting?

I'm a teacher in Chicago (librarian, in fact... my first battle in this war was putting the first 'r' back in li-berry), and I find it most useful to subtly parrot back what they've just said (and never in a mean, mocking way). In general, I speak so well, that the 'clunkers' that come out really rattle them. They smile, sigh, and try again. Probably the most amazing connection I've discovered is how closely linked the use of profanity is to poor grammar--that if I call them on a bit of linguistic nastiness, they'll check themselves, realize that someone around them cares not only about what they're saying, but how they're saying it, and the proper grammar flows. I really think that it's all about expectations. In Behind the Color Lines, Henry Louis Gates, Jr. interviews Colin Powell, and there, surrounded by an all Black film crew, Powell lets his guard slip and starts talking 'Black'. It's apparent from the manner of presentation that his 'proper' way of speaking is NOT an act-- he, like any good warrior, becomes aware of his surroundings, and modifies his behavior to maximum effect. If he had 'kept it real' all his life, he'd have to work twice as hard for half the result.

There's a good article on this at Esquire.com: a word of warning--the title is NSFW: http://www.esquire.com/features/ESQ1206BLACKESSAY_108