damn gluonium, is there anything without an hermetically sealed, "approved by the holy temple of science" explanation??? Wait!!! Oh shit, yer right......sorries, mate......leaning way to the fake camp.

Experience, is a motherfucker.
Dating? That's some alien,uncharted territory...eh?? But not for you, Testosticlees!!!

Don't worry son, choggie is too easy to figure out for most folks, (myself included), treat the sift as a type of therapy, or a tree house full of patient, slightly askew, mentors, who will delicately guide all comers through the uncharted regions, with gentle hand slaps, and prompt goading, followed, most likely, with abandonment, banishment, then death by Admin. We all have to go, down to the cold, cold, ground, some day.