Well
you could say that Jesus loves you, he is the uncreated son of God blah blah blah
his love is true love, pure love, and
when love is closest to itself it is always requited. One-sided love is simply lust, or egotism in disguise, or selfinflicted pain

SO you're being in hell is actually the inability of you to accept love, which is there, ready to be percieved and taken, it is free , you are freely loved and allowed to love freely.
I mean have you ever been loved by someone you don't love? I mean really loved?
It's not a pleasant experience, you want that person to get off, you want to be free from this kind of love.
So, a christian could say that God's love is actually more difficult an terrifying than his wrath or his indifference.