Maybe you should actually read the article before commenting on this?

Warning: it's a terribly written article that spends a lot of time on completely irrelevant details, also very NSFW, but to summarise (quoting from article):

When Ansari told her he was going to grab a condom within minutes of their first kiss, Grace voiced her hesitation explicitly. “I said something like, ‘Whoa, let’s relax for a sec, let’s chill.’”
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She says Ansari began making a move on her that he repeated during their encounter. “The move he kept doing was taking his two fingers in a V-shape and putting them in my mouth, in my throat to wet his fingers, because the moment he’d stick his fingers in my throat he’d go straight for my vagina and try to finger me.” Grace called the move “the claw.”

Ansari also physically pulled her hand towards his penis multiple times throughout the night, from the time he first kissed her on the countertop onward. “He probably moved my hand to his dick five to seven times,” she said. “He really kept doing it after I moved it away.”

But the main thing was that he wouldn’t let her move away from him. She compared the path they cut across his apartment to a football play. “It was 30 minutes of me getting up and moving and him following and sticking his fingers down my throat again. It was really repetitive. It felt like a fucking game.”

Ansari wanted to have sex. She said she remembers him asking again and again, “Where do you want me to fuck you?” while she was still seated on the countertop. She says she found the question tough to answer because she says she didn’t want to fuck him at all.

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I find it difficult to believe Ansari is "inexperienced". He's 34, famous, good-looking and funny. Hell, he wrote a damn book on the subject.

Now, even though I've lost count of the number of times I've said this, to be perfectly clear: I DO NOT THINK ANSARI IS GUILTY OF A CRIME.

But I also don't think that behaviour is acceptable. He acted like a total asshole.

But since we're talking about degrees of harm, you can still be an asshole and do actual harm without committing a crime.

Should his accuser have just left? Probably. Does that excuse his behaviour? Nope.

Interesting unconscious progression of Whoa-ness: He starts off "object oriented" (architecture & landmarks), and ends with more cultural and experiential shots.

Whoa, I totally missed that line because I was already chuckling at "can't make an appearance?"

That's hilarious (from my perspective anyway), but sure is an outlier in terms of the tone on the whole video -- the rest of the jabs were pretty soft but that's a full-on Glasgow Kiss.

Whoa, whoa, whoa -- back the fuck up: was that the goddamn IRON GIANT I just saw?

Tread lightly -- Iron Giant is some sacred fucking ground.

whoa- wait- what? Adam West died?

I did not hear that. Bummer.

Whoa!

Whoa!

You would have been so fearful at my wedding: There were Asians AND Muslims!! And some of the people were both Asian AND Muslim simultaneously! A couple Jews, too. (And scary college educated Atheists!!) Whoa. I must live in a strange and terrifying world, Bob! Oh myyy Godddd, what will happen to society with our kind free and roaming America?!?!?!?!!!!! AAAHHHHH LOL

Whoa! Thanks man!

Whoa whoa -- what's with the black-face celebration?

Never have I heard of this before.

Whoa! LOL! Wish I had said that! LOL

http://videosift.com/video/Nature-is-better-than-Isaac-Asimovs-Brain

Dude. I mean really. Whoa.

Whoa about the Anchorage/Chilkoot Charlies comments !

Whoa! Are they built to do that?

Whoa! Late to the party!

Congrats, @eric3579! You're one of the O.G.s of Videosift! Always a *quality poster! I almost missed this, and then I'd be really sad. Keep on keeping on!

Thanks, @bareboards2 for letting me know about this. W00t!