Really enjoyed that. For a moment I thought I would be unable to sit through the shakiness and the awkward angle, but the content is truth and was worth watching.

Somebody just got left for another man....

Word of the day: "mouth-hugs"

Downvote for a boring, obvious, navel-gazing brain fart with no unique or interesting angle.

Assholes are interesting: I guess if you're curious about why they are assholes but for anyone who is an asshole (namely me) we know that an asshole is an asshole for a reason that probably isn't good enough.

Assholes have confidence: It probably appears that way while they don't give a shit about what you're saying and just continue on with their boring lives...bet that seems intriguing to idiot girls.

To me Assholes look more dateable because people have that list and they see an asshole that runs counter to it but doesn't care. They start wondering if that asshole actually has the answers and that their list or set of morals could possibly be wrong.

The problem is people are stupid, and they're worried that their stupid. When you're scared you make mistakes, so you date an asshole cause you're stupid and scared.

Empowered smart women are better lays anyways

Couldn't watch it after the dumbass bitched about the cold. No wonder a woman didn't want you.

>> ^Yogi:

Assholes are interesting: I guess if you're curious about why they are assholes but for anyone who is an asshole (namely me) we know that an asshole is an asshole for a reason that probably isn't good enough.
Assholes have confidence: It probably appears that way while they don't give a shit about what you're saying and just continue on with their boring lives...bet that seems intriguing to idiot girls.
To me Assholes look more dateable because people have that list and they see an asshole that runs counter to it but doesn't care. They start wondering if that asshole actually has the answers and that their list or set of morals could possibly be wrong.
The problem is people are stupid, and they're worried that their stupid. When you're scared you make mistakes, so you date an asshole cause you're stupid and scared.
Empowered smart women are better lays anyways


Have an upvote, asshole!

>> ^longde:

Downvote for a boring, obvious, navel-gazing brain fart with no unique or interesting angle.


What kind of asshole is an asshole, but doesn't attract women? You!

"EVERYTHING MUST BE NEW TO ME OR I DON'T LIKE IT" -longde

>> ^papple:

>> ^longde:
Downvote for a boring, obvious, navel-gazing brain fart with no unique or interesting angle.

What kind of asshole is an asshole, but doesn't attract women? You!
"EVERYTHING MUST BE NEW TO ME OR I DON'T LIKE IT" -longde


What kind of asshole is an asshole and is you ?

YOU !

"mouth hugs"

What an asshole.

Hahaha......happily married, so no angst with attracting women.

Doesn't have to be new, but originality would be nice. I mean, what in this guy's prattling has not been said by lonely guys since the beginning of time? He doesn't even repeat these ideas very articulately.

Why is it so sift-worthy? Seriously.

The fact that this video gets so many votes says volumes about the dominant demographic of the sift.>> ^papple:

>> ^longde:
Downvote for a boring, obvious, navel-gazing brain fart with no unique or interesting angle.

What kind of asshole is an asshole, but doesn't attract women? You!
"EVERYTHING MUST BE NEW TO ME OR I DON'T LIKE IT" -longde

"They have no idea what they want. They have no idea what they deserve.."

No idea what they deserve..

Damn, I honestly have never asked myself that question before.

I always knew whether or not I wanted someone, that was usually enough..

His painful laugh at 1.05 warranted an empathetic upvote.


>> ^longde:The fact that this video gets so many votes says volumes about the dominant demographic of the sift.



There's something we can agree on. I hate this place when I see a video titled "Cute Girl [verb] [noun]"

I play an asshole to enhance when I'm being a sweetheart. I'm just skewing the playing field a little bit. That might seem like I'm cheating, but balancing that asshole-to-charming ratio is a constant struggle.

As an asshole I am offended.

>> ^Yogi:

Assholes are interesting: I guess if you're curious about why they are assholes but for anyone who is an asshole (namely me) we know that an asshole is an asshole for a reason that probably isn't good enough.
Assholes have confidence: It probably appears that way while they don't give a shit about what you're saying and just continue on with their boring lives...bet that seems intriguing to idiot girls.
To me Assholes look more dateable because people have that list and they see an asshole that runs counter to it but doesn't care. They start wondering if that asshole actually has the answers and that their list or set of morals could possibly be wrong.
The problem is people are stupid, and they're worried that their stupid. When you're scared you make mistakes, so you date an asshole cause you're stupid and scared.
Empowered smart women are better lays anyways


Exactly. As a very confident 'nice guy' I've always known this truth that confuses many 'nice guys'. I just behave like a bit of a bad boy while also treating her well, but the confidence alone usually does the trick. Generally I'm able to filter out trashy girls who play games and genuinely seek fractured, bad relationships (even if they aren't aware of it). There is a very strong difference between girls who want confident men, and the screwed up women that are truly comfortable with pieces of shit/asshole bad boys.

The best women I've dated have always been intelligent, empowered, modern women. And yes they've always been better in bed as they aren't scared prudes who are fearful of being 'sluts' and thus refuse to experiment.

"Confidence" is for amateurs. ALL the ladies swoon for Mr. Chloroform.

Comment hidden because you are ignoring dag.(show it anyway)

Like hitting yourself in the head with a hammer because it feels so good when you stop.>> ^rottenseed:

I play an asshole to enhance when I'm being a sweetheart. I'm just skewing the playing field a little bit. That might seem like I'm cheating, but balancing that asshole-to-charming ratio is a constant struggle.

I usually assume most of humanity is full of many people that are incapable of compassion and more importantly empathy. Not only does it explain why women date assholes (most people are anyway, to some degree--unless as stated they have empathy), but also why women might also be "bitches" (or assholes). Simply put nobody gives a fuck about anybody else's feelings, really, unless their action can create direct repercussions that affect them or something they do care about. Empathy, unfortunately, seems to be learned by most people the hard way (and this of course affects the entirety of the "Human Experience", not just relationships): you get a very painful disease/syndrome/ailment/injury and have to LIVE with it. People just do not have high level empathy unless terrible things have happened to them (I'm sure there is the few exceptions).

Basically, women will date assholes because the majority of the population are. Men that are the stereotypical built-up, juiced, arrogant, confident, and usually ignorant bull-pup are what we are thinking about in these scenarios. Most of them, on their worse day, had a broken finger or did poorly in school. They lack the empathy needed to NOT be an asshole. It has nothing to do with anything else. Assholes are simply people that don't understand, people!

As I said age is most likely going to change that as they become withered and old. As they get diseases or finally have their genetic misfires take hold, like MS, Cancer, or AIDS. Or deal with their Type II Diabetes that forces them to eventually go in for dialysis and even later the removal of limbs to stave the finality of its ultimate toll on their life. Or those that can no longer pass the duty of hardships onto others, and must help their mother as she slowly dies with much needed around the clock help--requiring baths, medicine, feeding, clothing, 24/7 diligence--due to their degenerative "syndrome/disease" that will ultimately kill them and irrevocably change their son or daughter forever.

That is how empathy is gained and it is also how assholes become good members of the community. It's also the best way not to marry, date, or be in a relationship with one. Merely find out if they have had hardships in their life that have directly affected them (not others around them, it MUST happen to them). Ask them some simple questions, like: what has that event taught them about others and how did they think beforehand? If they can give you a solid answer--they are not an asshole.

Case closed.

Your comment is better than the content of the video, IMO.

I used to think about this too, then I figured out what others here seem to have figured out, which is being a bit of an asshole draws women to you, and being respectful and treating them right makes them happy and want to make you happy. I had to stop thinking like a logical man ("I never like arrogant behaviour directed towards me, I value total consistency and support, and I want a partner who has a good heart."), and started understanding how women think ("I like interesting, confident people, I'm curious about contradictory behaviour, and a being around a dangerous guy makes me feel kinda safe, somehow."). And that has made all the difference.>> ^Yogi:

Assholes are interesting: I guess if you're curious about why they are assholes but for anyone who is an asshole (namely me) we know that an asshole is an asshole for a reason that probably isn't good enough.
Assholes have confidence: It probably appears that way while they don't give a shit about what you're saying and just continue on with their boring lives...bet that seems intriguing to idiot girls.
To me Assholes look more dateable because people have that list and they see an asshole that runs counter to it but doesn't care. They start wondering if that asshole actually has the answers and that their list or set of morals could possibly be wrong.
The problem is people are stupid, and they're worried that their stupid. When you're scared you make mistakes, so you date an asshole cause you're stupid and scared.
Empowered smart women are better lays anyways

Excellent post. Remember also that 10%-30% of the (world?) population are sociopaths completely incapable of empathy.

>> ^kceaton1:

I usually assume most of humanity is full of many people that are incapable of compassion and more importantly empathy. Not only does it explain why women date assholes (most people are anyway, to some degree--unless as stated they have empathy), but also why women might also be "bitches" (or assholes). Simply put nobody gives a fuck about anybody else's feelings, really, unless their action can create direct repercussions that affect them or something they do care about. Empathy, unfortunately, seems to be learned by most people the hard way (and this of course affects the entirety of the "Human Experience", not just relationships): you get a very painful disease/syndrome/ailment/injury and have to LIVE with it. People just do not have high level empathy unless terrible things have happened to them (I'm sure there is the few exceptions).
Basically, women will date assholes because the majority of the population are. Men that are the stereotypical built-up, juiced, arrogant, confident, and usually ignorant bull-pup are what we are thinking about in these scenarios. Most of them, on their worse day, had a broken finger or did poorly in school. They lack the empathy needed to NOT be an asshole. It has nothing to do with anything else. Assholes are simply people that don't understand, people!
As I said age is most likely going to change that as they become withered and old. As they get diseases or finally have their genetic misfires take hold, like MS, Cancer, or AIDS. Or deal with their Type II Diabetes that forces them to eventually go in for dialysis and even later the removal of limbs to stave the finality of its ultimate toll on their life. Or those that can no longer pass the duty of hardships onto others, and must help their mother as she slowly dies with much needed around the clock help--requiring baths, medicine, feeding, clothing, 24/7 diligence--due to their degenerative "syndrome/disease" that will ultimately kill them and irrevocably change their son or daughter forever.
That is how empathy is gained and it is also how assholes become good members of the community. It's also the best way not to marry, date, or be in a relationship with one. Merely find out if they have had hardships in their life that have directly affected them (not others around them, it MUST happen to them). Ask them some simple questions, like: what has that event taught them about others and how did they think beforehand? If they can give you a solid answer--they are not an asshole.
Case closed.