Dan Savage blog led me to this vid:
http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2012/06/11/gay-man-marries-straight-woman-enjoys-fucking-her-writes-blog-post-about-it-internet-explodes
and especially:
http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2012/06/11/by-josh-weeds-logic

YouTube Description:

A short message of thanks to all who have responded to our post about being gay, Mormon, and married.

posted by Gale Wallis (bareboards2) 11 months 1 week ago • 921 views • 4:12