A Vimeo short documenting what lives have become... for better or for worse... because of the Internet.
siftbotsays...

Promoting this video and sending it back into the queue for one more try; last queued Wednesday, July 25th, 2012 5:53pm PDT - promote requested by Playinwithfire.

Reefiesays...

>> ^shinyblurry:
I've read that children around the age of 12-14 are getting counseling on how to interact face to face with people because they've lived in a world of texting their whole lives. Our wired world is creating profound dysfunction in the minds and hearts of the people:
http://www.thedailybeast.com/newsweek/2012/07/08/is-the-internet-making-us-crazy-what-the-new-research-says.html


People have an inherent desire to feel needed or worthwhile. That desire can be managed through social interaction, being part of a group helps act as a conduit allowing the interaction to have a basis to proceed. Most group interactions have obvious positive benefits for the individuals involved, with the negative impacts being dismissed because the good supposedly outweighs the bad.

You raise a good point that face to face interaction has declined due to the impact of the internet, and it definitely helps the individuals affected if they can learn multiple ways to interact with others. Take letter writing for example, everyone loves to receive a personal letter but very few people actually take the time to put pen to paper anymore. Maybe we should also be encouraging people to write more instead of cramming what they're trying to say into a small bite-size chunk of communication.

If these modern forms of interaction are providing benefits to the individuals who utilise them then all that is required is ensuring that people are aware and well-informed of the negative consequences so they can make adjustments to their lifestyle if they see fit.

Fletchsays...

In the lunchroom where I work, we used to all talk about our weekends, families, sports, politics... anything. It would even get loud sometimes. Hell, we even had a Chess tournament once. Nowadays, you can walk into the lunchroom, and it is absolutely quiet. Five people can be sitting at the same table and they are all looking down at their fucking phones. It's sad. Questions receive nothing more than disinterested nods or shakes of the head, and attempts at conversation are met with irritation, as if you are interrupting something (yeah, I know... could be just me ). Cell phones have done more to isolate that to connect, imho.

budzossays...

It's not just kids of this generation. I'm in my mid-thirties. The past few women I've been involved with have been age appropriate and all have been obsessive texters. But not great conversationalists. There is a constant conversation which seems civil because of the partially asynchronous nature of texting. But then in person, I can't seem to get through more than one sentence without being interrupted about 75% of the time with any woman who is a big texter. Conversely, the best listeners have been those averse to technology (but I haven't had a gf like that in about six years).

articiansays...

>> ^poolcleaner:

The internet is just part of our social evolution. This is the awkward phase.


Yeah that's the way I see it.

No offense to the poster of this comment, but when I read things like:
"I've read that children around the age of 12-14 are getting counseling on how to interact face to face with people because"

I immediately flash back to the absurdity of the mid-80's, and the whole "D&D will cause your kids to do acid and kill each other and live in a fantasy world!"

I think anyone is totally valid in saying this trend is pretty stupid in many ways, but it's not the first or last one the human species will go through, and all those awkward kids who grew up on the internet will have kids of their own and wonder "why the hell doesn't he come out of the VR room all weekend? I read research that..." yadda yadda.

From my personal perspective, I wish people were more resistant to "the latest thing" or new technology, because of how much we give up for it.

Fletchsays...

@artician

No offense to the poster of this comment, but when I read things like:
"I've read that children around the age of 12-14 are getting counseling on how to interact face to face with people because"
I immediately flash back to the absurdity of the mid-80's, and the whole "D&D will cause your kids to do acid and kill each other and live in a fantasy world!"

The difference is, what SB said is true (I CAN'T believe I just typed that), and potentially affects the vast majority of young people today and their ability to interact effectively one-on-one as human beings. What you use as an example of some repeating, generational "asurdity" was simply your vague recollection of a made-for-TV Tom Hanks movie that even the small percentage of kids who actually played D&D thought was ridiculous.

It's not just young people, though. Budzos didn't spell it out, but I think his experience and mine are similar in one respect. The co-workers I described are all 30 and 40-somethings who were infected by the asocial miasma of the cellular ether later in life. It's easy. It's cool. It's convenient. It's new and amazing, and it can tell you where all 33 Starbucks within 5 miles of you are located. I understand the initial appeal. It's like a drug. It sucks you in. And before you know it... you're obsessed with Groupon, happiness is the ringtone of a new text message, your Facebook status is IMPORTANT, and that shiny new badge and the subsequent adulations of complete strangers legitimizes all that time you spent/wasted/lost forever scouring Reddit and YouTube.

Not for me.

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